其實，我是個內向的人: 面對人際關係，隱藏的是不安的自己 ...

其實，我是個內向的人: 面對人際關係，隱藏的是不安的自己(Traditional Chinese Edition) - Kindle edition by 南仁淑. Download it once and read it on your Kindle ... Skiptomaincontent KindleStore › KindleeBooks › Religion&Spirituality BuyingOptionsKindlePrice:$8.51 Buynowwith1-Click&reg PromotionsapplywhenyoupurchaseThesepromotionswillbeappliedtothisitem:Somepromotionsmaybecombined;othersarenoteligibletobecombinedwithotheroffers.Fordetails,pleaseseetheTerms&Conditionsassociatedwiththesepromotions. DelivertoyourKindleorotherdevice You'vesubscribedto!Wewillpreorderyouritemswithin24hoursofwhentheybecomeavailable.Whennewbooksarereleased,we'llchargeyourdefaultpaymentmethodforthelowestpriceavailableduringthepre-orderperiod.Updateyourdeviceorpaymentmethod,cancelindividualpre-ordersoryoursubscriptionatYourMemberships&SubscriptionsTherewasanerror.Wewereunabletoprocessyoursubscriptionduetoanerror.Pleaserefreshandtryagain. BuyforothersGiveasagiftorpurchaseforateamorgroup.LearnmoreBuyingandsendingeBookstoothersSelectquantityBuyandsendeBooksRecipientscanreadonanydeviceAdditionalgiftoptionsareavailablewhenbuyingoneeBookatatime.  LearnmoreTheseebookscanonlyberedeemedbyrecipientsintheUS.RedemptionlinksandeBookscannotberesold. Quantity: 1BuyforothersThisitemhasamaximumorderquantitylimit. EnterapromotioncodeorGiftCard Share DownloadthefreeKindleappandstartreadingKindlebooksinstantlyonyoursmartphone,tablet,orcomputer-noKindledevicerequired.LearnmoreReadinstantlyonyourbrowserwithKindleCloudReader.Usingyourmobilephonecamera-scanthecodebelowanddownloadtheKindleapp. AddtobookclubLoadingyourbookclubsTherewasaproblemloadingyourbookclubs.Pleasetryagain.Notinaclub?Learnmore Joinorcreatebookclubs Choosebookstogether TrackyourbooksBringyourclubtoAmazonBookClubs,startanewbookclubandinviteyourfriendstojoin,orfindaclubthat’srightforyouforfree.ExploreAmazonBookClubs 其實，我是個內向的人:面對人際關係，隱藏的是不安的自己(TraditionalChineseEdition)KindleEdition TraditionalChineseEdition by 南仁淑 (Author) Format:KindleEdition 4.5outof5stars 2ratings SeeallformatsandeditionsSorry,therewasaproblemloadingthispage.Tryagain. PriceNewfromUsedfrom Kindle,January1,2020 "Pleaseretry" $8.51 — — Kindle $8.51 ReadwithOurFreeApp 把外向當成是普世價值，強迫所有人都必須假裝外向，是一種社會暴力。

　　曾經暢銷380萬冊以上的「話題作家」南仁淑，坦承自己的內心常常是「邊緣人」的狀態；　　她可以站在有上百位讀者的演講台侃侃而談，但其實私底下在有四個人以上的聚會就坐立難安；　　她參加西式派對好像如臨大敵，完全陷入「人生茫然狀況」排行前五名，　　她看起來似乎是「外向」的人，錯了，她長期在「內向」的個性裡學習認清自己，接受自己。

　　很多人在人際關係中似乎安裝雷達或無線藍牙，一遇到「陌生」「尷尬」「不安」就會準備逃離……　　大部分的人在職場上，假裝活潑開朗，但結果反而累得半死，很快就沒電，　　更多的人處在外向與內向的曖昧區塊，迷失自己原來的個性，隨波逐流很痛苦。

　　本書透過作者自身的經驗，幫助你釐清自己真正的性格。

　　不用否定天生具備的敏感，害羞表達，總是自導自演的內心戲；　　也不用特別強調，能言善道是累積人際關係唯一的鑰匙；　　更不需要羨慕眾星拱月的光鮮亮麗，　　你有自己行走的速度，做事的節奏，溝通的方法，　　也許緩慢了一點，也許笨了一點，也許孤單了一點，　　但是最後你會發現，這樣的自己最自由自在，這樣的自己最幸福。

　　●很快就沒電，充電又很慢，內向的人真實的心聲──　　我要是哭了，那就不要管我→謝絕過度的安慰　　吃飯的時候不要太照顧我→謝絕過度的貼心　　我喜歡安靜的美髮沙龍→謝絕讓人疲憊的對話　　我不喜歡尷尬的派對→謝絕勉強的邀約　　我自己一個人玩得很開心→謝絕不必要的擔心　　不拿個性當藉口，不必去麻煩別人，安靜且自由，過我自己的生活。

本書特色　　你是個內向的人嗎？先來做個測驗。

　　●可以自己一個人面對最開心或最幸福的時刻。

　　●決定好旅行行程會很開心，但一方面也會有壓力。

　　●就算一個禮拜不出門、不跟人見面，也相信自己不會覺得無聊。

　　●外務結束後如果有剩餘時間，比起去找附近的朋友，更喜歡自己在咖啡廳休息。

　　●失戀或是遇到被背叛之類的事情時，大大傷心完後會想自己一個人待著。

　　●太多人的聚會會覺得很累，喜歡一對一的見面。

　　●聊天的時候如果對方說的話很有趣，那靜靜聆聽也沒關係，不覺得自己一定要說話。

　　●經常會後悔自己說的話，而且會記得很久。

　　●自己一個人待在房間裡的時間最幸福。

　　●如果對方因為不得已的原因而取消約會，不僅不會不開心，甚至會覺得很高興。

　　●但也不是討厭這次的聚會，如果真的赴約了還是會很開心。

　　●經常會受緊張性頭痛所苦。

　　●不喜歡惹事，但如果不把已經發生的事情好好結束，就會自己給自己壓力。

　　符合10項以上，就是典型的內向者。

符合7到9項則是有內向者的傾向。

符合4到6項則是介於內外向中間。

低於3項則是外向者。

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